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Mom Of Missing Toddler Goes Out Partying As Police Search Landfill For Her Son’s Remains

Savannah, GA – The mother of a 20-month-old boy who has been missing for three weeks was seen swigging shots of expensive tequila while flirting with staff at a Georgia bar last week as investigators continued to search a nearby landfill for her son’s remains.

Leilani Simon, 22, claimed her toddler son, Quinton Simon, disappeared from her home on Buckhalter Road sometime after 6 a.m. on Oct. 5, FOX News reported.

“Complainant advised her 1-year-old son is missing,” a 911 dispatcher relayed to officers, according to court documents. “She woke up, her door was open. Advised he’s unable to open a door. Thinks someone came in and took him.”

The Chatham County Police Department (CCPD) and the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) confirmed on Oct. 12 that they do not believe the little boy is still alive.

“We are saddened to report that CCPD and the FBI have notified Quinton Simon’s family that we believe he is deceased,” the CCPD said in a tweet that night. “We have named his mother, Leilani Simon, as the prime suspect in his disappearance and death. But, no arrests have been made and no charges have been filed.”

Police said Simon is the sole suspect in the case.

Investigators said during a subsequent press conference that they believe Quinton’s body was discarded in a “specific dumpster” that was ultimately taken to the landfill, FOX News reported.

“We did not want to end up at this point, but the evidence has taken us here,” FBI Special Agent Will Clark said on Oct. 18. “We have evidence, specific evidence, that leads us to this large property.”

The CCPD has also revealed that investigators have no reason to believe the toddler was kidnapped or abducted, WTOC reported.

No other details were immediately released.

The search for the little boy’s body remains ongoing.

As investigators continued to sift through the landfill for her child’s remains, Simon and her mother, Billie Joe Howell, headed over to Sting Ray’s bar on Tybee Island on Oct. 18 and began downing pricey shots and flirting with bar staff, FOX News reported.

“They were having a great time, like they didn’t have a care in the world,” one server told the New York Post. “They were drinking Patrón shots in the deck area, being loud and laughing. It’s almost like they were trying to draw attention to themselves.”

A member of the wait staff said the duo met up with friends and racked up a tab of more than $300 during their rowdy outing, WSAV reported.

“They had shots, [were] flirty and demanded a waiter’s number,” one staffer alleged. “People were getting upset. They just wanted them out of here. It was really strange.”

Days later, Simon complained to WTOC that protesters have been rallying outside her home and leaving signs on a memorial for her son calling her a “Baby Killer.”

“It makes it hard to even process what’s going around us,” she told the news outlet. “We get to the point where we have to barricade our own home in order to even feel safe in our backyard because we can’t even process what is happening everywhere else, or even have the time to do so.”

“I can’t even walk out and appreciate my own son’s memorial or put down gifts that I got for him. I can’t even go out there and do that without harassment and negligence and everything,” she added. “It’s just devastating to see that this is how the outside world reacts.”

Four demonstrators were arrested outside the family’s home over the weekend after they allegedly banged on windows and doors and blocked the driveway, WTOC reported.

Simon further declared that she isn’t going anywhere, despite being named as the prime – and only – suspect in her son’s death.

“I’m here. I’ve been here every day since this,” she told WTOC. “I’m not running and I’m not hiding.”

“And if something does come up that I am at fault,” she added, “I will take myself to that police station.”

“And I will walk with her,” Howell chimed in.

Simon said she becomes more and more angry each day police fail to find her son.

“Happy and alive. We want him back in our arms, holding us. That’s what we want,” she told WTOC. “We’re just hoping that he’s in somebody’s house and they’re feeding him and maybe they wanted a baby or couldn’t have a baby. Maybe they thought they were his savior. That’s our best hope at this point.”

Simon further said she wants “justice” for her son.

“All we want is justice for Quinton Simon,” she told WTOC. “We want justice for Quinton…We want answers, just like everybody else does.”

Howell, who has a lengthy arrest history, has described her family as “dysfunctional” in the past, and compared them to the Showtime drama series, “Shameless,” the New York Post reported.

Howell’s son – Quinton’s uncle – is currently behind bars for manslaughter and robbery charges.

Another of his uncles is serving a 45-year sentence in connection with a man’s death, according to the New York Post.

According to court documents filed by Child Protective Services (CPS) in Chatham County, Simon “is a chronic, unrehabilitated substance abuser of cocaine and cannabis,” The Sun reported.

She also allegedly admitted to using cocaine during pregnancy, and tested positive for the drug when she gave birth to one of her children, according to CPS.

Simon’s other two children – a six-month-old and a three-year-old – were placed into foster care after she was named as the prime suspect in Quinton’s death, The Sun reported.

All three of the children have different fathers, according to the news outlet.

“She hasn’t always done the right thing,” Howell said after Quinton disappeared, according to the New York Post. “Sometimes she does really great, sometimes she doesn’t … I don’t know if I can trust her — I don’t.”

Quinton’s biological father, 24-year-old Henry “Bubba” Moss, said Simon initially told police that he had kidnapped their son from her home during the night, even though he hadn’t seen the little boy in months, the Daily Mail reported.

“Leilani’s tried to blame it on me,” Moss told the news outlet.

He said police had not yet announced that they believed Quinton was dead when they showed up to question him at his boss’s home, 85 miles away from Savannah, the Daily Mail reported.

Moss said he assured them that he didn’t leave his house the night before his son’s disappearance and told them he headed to work at 7:40 a.m. that day.

“’I told police – she’s gonna hurt that baby,” he told the Daily Mail. “I said I didn’t know what was going on. Hell, I haven’t heard from her in six to seven months.”

Moss said the couple broke up shortly after Simon allegedly tried to frame him up for a home burglary she had already been arrested for.

Simon ended up pleading guilty to a lessor charge of criminal trespass and was sentenced to 12 months of probation, the Daily Mail reported.

She was still on probation for that offense and for another theft out of North Carolina at the time of Quinton’s disappearance.

“She did cocaine every day, all day, as much as she could,” Moss told the Daily Mail. “When she didn’t get no money from me to get f—king drugs, she’d go crazy. She hit me a few times in the face.”

“The only reason I’m not in Quinton’s life is because she left,” he added. “She was not welcome here anymore with all her lying and stealing.”

Moss said he went to Simon’s family’s home the day after his son’s disappearance to speak with her and Howell about the missing little boy, the Daily Mail reported.

“Every one of them was high as a kite and drunk as hell,” he said. “Leilani was on something. She wasn’t crying when I walked up. She was laughing and having a good time with everybody. It looked like a party.”

Moss said he is stunned Simon hasn’t been arrested in light of his son’s presumed death, the Daily Mail reported.

“She’s a terrible person and she’s going to jail, or hell. She’s evil. She shouldn’t be out here in society,” he said. “If she didn’t want him, she could have told me. I would have come and got him.”

Written by
Holly Matkin

Holly is a former probation and parole officer who is married to a sheriff’s deputy. She is a regular contributor to Signature Montana magazine, and has written feature articles for Distinctly Montana magazine.

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Written by Holly Matkin

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